This is as true in everyday life as it is in battle: we are given one life and the decision is ours whether to wait for circumstances to make up our mind or whether to act, and in acting, to live." If you don't make up your mind to succeed, you've already chosen to fail. In my day job, I work at Cornell, but my life job is being a mom and helping my friends and family to be happy, healthy and successful. Don't settle for what tradition says is life... grab reality by the horns and embrace what you were meant to be! Through God's grace and mercy, life CAN be an adventure! :)