Judgement is the single most powerful intellectual exercise of intuition, wisdom and executive function in possession for pro-social behavior modification, and is the compassionate path as it makes no distortions of reality. If condoning violence is complicit support for it, then the Dali Lama who consumes industrial dairy while knowing better is no closer to understanding Buddha's wisdom then those who murder bovine babies for money. Your mileage may vary, obviously, but using practical language and honest descriptions which reject euphemisms and excuses for non-human animal exploitation is in my estimation the kindest non-violent practice since not dismissing the fog of human supremacy which nearly every human on Earth is consumed by only perpetuates a blockade to Buddha's teachings of non-harm to the self and the continuum of the one consciousness of the Universe. Not sitting with bloodmouths as they feast on death sends a clear message of solidarity with the suffering and provides a very poignant and remarkable opportunity to both stand in conviction and purposefully support and reward vegan businesses while offering those who are truly open and not just placating vegans with platitudes and false empty shared concern to join you for vegan meals in vegan settings, as quietly as you wish. If my words come off as shouting, that volume is only in your own mind, as mine is calm and serene and pacified by the truth that no mother shall be exploited for her child's milk, regardless of her birth shape. 💚💚💚